Wednesday,
May 2nd - May Flowers
I love spring anywhere, but if I could choose
I would always greet it in a garden.
~ Ruth Stout ~
Happy May to all! I love the month of May. I love
the promise of spring that it brings to Alaska. May is the month
when my thoughts turn to flowers and gardens, camping and hiking,
and photographing colors and textures.

I
celebrated the first day of May with a trip to Plant Kingdom -
a nursery on Farmers Loop Rd. Plant Kingdom is my favorite greenhouse
to visit. While there are others in town, I just love the way
Plant Kingdom is laid out - with rows and rows of colorful flowers,
many hanging baskets, a small section of garden accessories, and
friendly staff. One greenhouse is full of flowers. Another greenhouse
has herbs as well as flowers. There are shrubs and ornamental
trees, and vegetable plants too. It's a real treat for all the
senses! The best part of all? The ladybugs who live there too!
My friend Abby spent the
day with me, and we began our afternoon with a late breakfast
at The Cookie Jar. From there we made our way to the nursery,
our cameras in tow. I hoped to bring home a few plants, but even
if I didn't, I certainly planned to bring home photographs. (I
did come home with a 6-pack of pansies and a fuscia plant)
Enjoy...
Abby and I made a few more stops to check out the
scenery. I also had a few quick errands to run, and she didn't
mind the stops. It was nice being out all afternoon with a gal
pal. I know that Abby appreciated it too. She hasn't had much
time for 'girl time' since arriving in AK with her husband (an
RN at the hospital), and her two sons. Recently she adopted a
Boston Terrier (Jezebel: Belle for short), and with her kids in
football, her husband's work schedule, school winding down, learning
to live with a new furkid, and getting settled at home, she's
been overwhelmed with responsibility, schedules, etc. I enjoyed
her company, and I know she appreciated one afternoon when the
only pressure was which plants to buy for her garden.
Today I went walking with Karen again. This time,
we walked in her neighborhood. The route that she does is 2 miles,
but the beginning portion of it is uphill. Forget talking during
that part! It's all I could do to keep from panting.
I did feel the burn and that's a good thing.
Karen brought her dog Molly with us. Molly is a
cute beagle, and very friendly. Molly is the first beagle I've
come in contact with in a long time. Being a beagle, Molly likes
to bay. I never heard a dog bay before, and it was definitely
different than the barking I get from Sedona when she sees another
dog or something interesting. (You
can see a short video of a beagle baying by clicking here.)
Considering it was 9:30am, and Molly's baying was really
loud, both Karen and I couldn't help but chuckle a little and
hope that everyone was already awake. We did manage to get her
to tone it down a little but reinforcing that she was a good girl
and distracting her from the other dogs along the way. I hope
Karen continues to have this luck with Molly. Either that, or
she better not take her out walking at 6am. (I'm so glad you're
walking with me, Karen - and Molly was a real treat to have along,
even though she announces our presence. *laughs*)
Steve had another retirement briefing today. This
one went long, and touched on issues he's already handled in regards
to clearing the army. However, he also had the chance to talk
to a few people who had information about jobs becoming available
on Fort Wainwright. One of them just posted today, and he applied
for it. He has quite a few applications and resumes out there,
and he's not even on terminal leave yet.
There will be a private retirement ceremony for
Steve on Friday. He didn't sign up for the garrison wide retirement
ceremony because he wanted his farewell to be with those he's
worked with for the past three years. At first he asked me to
attend with him, so that I could get photos of him getting his
plaque and saying his goodbyes. About 30 minutes later, he turned
to me and asked me if I'd be upset if he decided he'd rather go
alone. The ironic thing is that I fully expected this change of
heart. The more I thought about how emotional this day was going
to be for him, the less I felt I belonged there.
I have supported my husband 100% throughout his
military career. I did the best I could to be a good military
wife for him. I provided him with the emotional and mental support
he needed while he was deployed, or in the field training, or
under the various stresses that come with serving our country.
Regardless... I still don't have the inside scoop about what being
a soldier is all about. I can imagine the strong bond between
soldiers. I can envision the hardships a soldier endures when
he/she is in a war torn country. I can try to understand the sadness
or horror that comes with the death or injury of a friend and
fellow soldier. But in reality I am an outsider.
This day should be for him and his soldier friends.
I will have him for the rest of our life together...